Gift ideas · Between friends

Gift ideas for a draw between friends

Among close friends, the problem usually isn't the budget but what to give someone you know very well who already has almost everything. These ideas start from what you share.

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With a close friend, the usual tricks don't work: an expensive gift doesn't impress and a generic one disappoints. What works is something that only makes sense between the two of you: a joke, a habit, a plan still pending.

Four ideas

  1. The running joke, on a mug or in a frame

    Nearly every friendship has a joke that has been running for years. Put it on an object: the line on a mug, the photo from that trip in a frame, a fake certificate with the story. It's cheap and gets used every day.

  2. What only you know they like

    Think of what only you know they like: the tea they order after a bad week, the road-trip playlist, the late-night snack. Give exactly that, nicely presented. It shows you pay attention.

  3. For the friend who has everything

    For someone who has everything, skip another object. Things that get used up or experienced work better: a box of good seasonal fruit, a quality candle, a restaurant booking for the two of you.

  4. The plan you keep putting off

    Is there a plan you've been putting off for years? The class you meant to take together, the restaurant you always wanted to try. Book it and put the printed confirmation in the box. The gift is finally doing it.

Before the draw

Ask everyone to leave hints, even if you know each other well: with a close friend it's easy to give what you think they like rather than what they actually want.

And set the limit before anyone shops, so whoever spends most doesn't set the price for everyone.

Draw names among friends

Create the exchange, ask everyone to leave hints and Cuchumbo runs the draw. It's free, needs no account and nobody knows who drew whom, not even the organizer.

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Gift ideas picked to match the season. As an Amazon Associate, Cuchumbo earns from qualifying purchases. Links open Amazon in a new tab.